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330: Coaching Character as the Foundation of Leadership

What if the real secret to great leadership isn’t found in strategy or skill, but in the strength of your character? This conversation with Dane Deutsch explores how character forms the true foundation of leadership, shaped by his own family values, military service, and years of leading diverse teams.

Through stories from the Air Force and his own experience as a CEO, Dane reveals why caring for people and building trust matter more than any title or technique. His insights show that whether you’re coaching athletes, running a business, or guiding a community, authentic leadership always begins with character.

Dane also introduces the “tricycle effect,” illustrating how qualities like trustworthiness, respect, and responsibility steer both personal and professional growth. From practical tools for self-coaching to the power of empathy and humility, you’ll come away inspired to strengthen your own character skills, build genuine connections, and lead with heart in every area of life.

Dane was a Commander in the US Air Force and first applied character skills in the military. He’s the CEO of LMDC Academy, which stands for Leadership Management and Development in Character. Over the past 40 years, he’s coached and trained athletes, businesses, and teams. Dane owned a cybersecurity company and sold it in 2020. He’s also taught classes on cybersecurity at the university level. He and his wife own a gymnastics training center for pre-k to high school students, and character is the #1 skill they teach, followed by leadership, and then technical skills. Dane’s most recent book is titled Coach-Ability and The Tricycle Effect: Coaching Character as the Foundation of Leadership.

You’ll discover:

Why character skills are the true foundation of great leadership
How self-talk and body posture can help you manage anxiety and boost confidence
The “tricycle effect” and how it can guide your personal and professional growth
Real stories about empathy, humility, and the power of being coachable
Practical ways to develop trust, respect, and authentic connections in any area of your life

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284: You Can Grow Strong Character

GROWING STRONG CHARACTER FOR LEADERSHIP

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Grow Strong Character

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045: Coaching Yourself through Crisis

by Pamela Cournoyer

Have you or someone you know had to deal with a serious health issue? My guest Pamela Cournoyer faced Stage 4 Lymphoma in 2012, and she is thriving today. In this interview she describes her journey from diagnosis to recovery and talks about how she uses this experience and insight in her work with clients today. Pamela is an internationally recognized conflict management maven, and her specialties include mastering mindset, boundary setting, and resolving conflict.

You’ll discover:

What a friend said that shocked Pamela into creating a recovery plan
Why she put together a team of coaches to help her through treatment and recovery of her illness
How Pamela helps clients change their perspective about past failures so they appreciate these experiences as gifts
The Serenity Process Pamela uses to guide clients to slow down, think clearly and get past roadblocks